Fire Penguin Writes:

My boyfriend's best friend told me that my boyfriend TOLD him that he slept with some other girl. His friend made me promise not to tell my boyfriend that he told me. I confronted my boyfriend anyway.

He denied it and told me that he did tell his best friend that he banged her but he really didn't. He couldn't explain why he told him other then that maybe he was trying to show off or something.. I don't know guys are freakin weird...He said they didn't have sex but he did kiss her, she started groping him and he couldn't even get hard because he was thinking of me and he then nudged her away and said no.

I told him to get her on the phone.  He did and I asked her to tell me exactly what happened and she told me the exact same story he did. I asked if they had sex and she said no, i promise. ..girl to girl. 

I told him he has no right to be mad at his best friend for telling me what he thought to be true. His friend is my friend too and he cares about me. 

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we live together. I love him and he loves me. He cried to me and apologized from his heart and swore on everything that he would never make a mistake like that again and that after that happened it just made him realize how much he loves me.

I just don't know what to believe. I don't know what to do. 

MR. GOOD ADVICE RESPONDS:

Your boyfriend is cheating on you, Your friend made the stupid mistake of getting in the middle of two people's relationship and will ultimately pay the price. Your boyfriend will probably kick his butt and you will continue to believe whatever your boyfriends tells you. Your friend should mind his business because nothing ever good comes from sticking your nose in other peoples relationship. So, no matter what anybody says in response to you question, you will stay with this loser until you get sick of his cheating. Thats just life.

If you do want some real advice, start getting even.  Start having sex with as many people as you can.  In about four years you will be about even with your boyfriend.  Why fool yourself.